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What Life Really Means to You? #3

Life constantly serves many perspectives and choices. The variety of life purposes, however, is countless that might be diverse from one another. It even gradually changes along with our self-development. Our destiny absolutely depends on decisions that we have frequently made every single time. For that reason, we need to take this into accounts by defining our determination in life. It should be steady in matters of foundation as many distractions are unsolicitedly came, but the process is anything but easy.   
Millions of people live on earth with many differences in terms of culture, economy, education, and fate. The similarity is that none of us want to be sick physically, mentally, and emotionally, however, the pain is inevitable. As a human being, we have felt tone-deaf, vulnerable, and helpless particularly when comparing our self to the others. It significantly results an ingratitude sense making our mental health worst. In fact, we always look up for the glamorous aspect of life, and it makes us small, whereas, plenty of people are unluckier than us. 
Defining who really are will help us not to drive into the massive and complex thoughts. The created path along with the boundary is our protection from many distractions outside that might be in form of fashion, and life style. We further will not get drifted easily as we have our fundamental base. One thing that has to be noted is that do not ever blame or make any joke on someone’s intention in life. At the end of the day, there is no absolute ending to be followed as we were born to be different.  
We are swamped with many concepts of living. Once we decide what picture that we are concerned about, our days will be more meaningful. The feeling of insecurity will slowly be faded away. Let’s keep our head up for something that we stand for. Never let strangers bother our authority. For me, life is about choice, nothing to be compared. The idea of appreciating someone’s preference needs to be declared louder.  

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